- Love
Love is the main
element in friendship. Friendship ties will be easily broken if there is no
love between two people. Thus, we should express our love to our friend with
saying ‘uhibbuka or I fillah’ (for those who same gender) so that they know how
love are we towards them, for the sake of ALLAH S.W.T.
- Sincerity
Sincerity in
friendship will get a blessing and mercy from ALLAH. If we not sincerity in
friendship, it will result to hostility between our friend. We should friends
with someone because of his integrity and manners but not because of his
appearance, position and properties that he own.
- Loyalty
Loyalty in friendship
will be last longer even though they rarely met. If we loyal to our friends, we
will be remembered for our lifetime because no matter how difficult or easy it
is, we remain loyal to his side.
- Bravery / Courage
Courage in telling
the truth. In friendship, we must brave to tell something. Especially when we
do something that might hurt their feeling. We should brave to confess our
fault. Besides that, we also must be brave to give advice to our friend because
of course we want the best for them right?
- Honesty
Don’t ever to cheat
or hide anything from our friends. They deserve to know what had we gone
through in our life. Don’t keep any secret from them unless something that
really private and confidential.
- Forgiveness
If our friend had
done anything wrong, forgive them no matter how big their fault. It is because,
a good friend will always forgive their friend and vice versa.
- Happiness
Share our happiness
with our lovely friends. Shall not we see a beautiful smile etched on their
facial features? Their happiness means our happiness too.
- Sadness
When we realize that
our friend are sad, then we should follow along with them. Offer our shoulder
as places for they cry. Maybe at that time, nobody will they find beside our
friend.
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