Friday, May 2, 2014

Tips in Friendship

  • Love

Love is the main element in friendship. Friendship ties will be easily broken if there is no love between two people. Thus, we should express our love to our friend with saying ‘uhibbuka or I fillah’ (for those who same gender) so that they know how love are we towards them, for the sake of ALLAH S.W.T.


  • Sincerity

Sincerity in friendship will get a blessing and mercy from ALLAH. If we not sincerity in friendship, it will result to hostility between our friend. We should friends with someone because of his integrity and manners but not because of his appearance, position and properties that he own.


  • Loyalty

Loyalty in friendship will be last longer even though they rarely met. If we loyal to our friends, we will be remembered for our lifetime because no matter how difficult or easy it is, we remain loyal to his side.


  •          Bravery / Courage

Courage in telling the truth. In friendship, we must brave to tell something. Especially when we do something that might hurt their feeling. We should brave to confess our fault. Besides that, we also must be brave to give advice to our friend because of course we want the best for them right?


  • Honesty

Don’t ever to cheat or hide anything from our friends. They deserve to know what had we gone through in our life. Don’t keep any secret from them unless something that really private and confidential.



  •           Forgiveness

If our friend had done anything wrong, forgive them no matter how big their fault. It is because, a good friend will always forgive their friend and vice versa.


  •          Happiness

Share our happiness with our lovely friends. Shall not we see a beautiful smile etched on their facial features? Their happiness means our happiness too.


  •         Sadness


When we realize that our friend are sad, then we should follow along with them. Offer our shoulder as places for they cry. Maybe at that time, nobody will they find beside our friend.




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